when it comes to how some people feel about Thailand’s naughty nightlife, there is no shortage of negative comments. Unfortunately, all those negative comments come from people who have their own sexual issues as a result of trying to mix morals and ethics with sex.
Cutting directly to the point, morals and ethics are part of society and culture. But when it comes to sex, we are talking instincts and human nature to seek it out. When you try to mix the two together, you end up with a mess by trying to punish someone for being human.
On the recent short list of people who have been punished for allowing their instincts to get the best of them, we have Tiger Woods, along with a variety of other high profile politicians and people that have been put on a pedestal by society. The list is very long, and that is just the ones that were caught in the act of being human. This list does not only include men, there are plenty of women as well. For every man that was caught, there was one or more women involved.
So turning the light to Thailand’s naughty nightlife, we suddenly are face with the reality of why it exists. That simple reality it is built into our instincts. People that go on crusades like Bible Thumpers and Church groups, only tend to fill the appointment books of therapists. People are confused why they have these urges that draw them to sex that are seemingly shunned by society.
Fortunately the Bible Thumpers are also shunned by society as a whole for being odd and unusual. With that some may conclude that following their instincts and visiting the naughty nightlife may help in keeping them from being like the Bible Thumpers. Ironically everything that the Bible Thumpers seem to be preaching against in naughty nightlife areas, they themselves have done but in other places. With that thought in mind, it does leave you wondering at the oxymoron they are creating.
Also under the heading window shopping, a person can go and observe the happenings in Go-Go bars but not have to get involved in sexual activity. There is plenty to see and lots of cold beer to take the edge off of whatever is bothering you. But society will try to punish you because of your GPS coordinates.
With that thought, it becomes extremely hypocritical that renting or buying an adult movie that depicts sexual activity is acceptable, but watching sexy women dancing in a bar is an issue. On the same note sex sells, there are thousands of sexually suggestive advertisements for products in every direction you care to look. But if you are in a place that you can actually reach out and touch it, you are punished.
This moral and ethical base has roots in religion. The same religions that discourage the use of condoms and have priests accused and convicted of some form of sexual misconduct with children. It is very clear the policy the church has on sex is not slightly flawed, it is extremely messed up. It goes without saying trying to override human instincts has its problems.
So the next time someone tries to demoralize you for being human, you should put them in their place and recommend a good therapist to them that deals in sexual issues.